Maximum frustration

“Girl : you just dont know what I want.”

“Boy : Thats because you never tell me what you want.”

Sounds familiar?

Well, it happens all the time in my life too. Situations like that are pretty frustrating for the guys and pretty saddening for the girls. The girls might feel that their boyfriend does not care about their wants etc etc. The guys will just be so frustrated because they do not know what is the right thing to do.

I dont think there is a solution for such situations. For one, the girls think that if everything needs to be said literally, then it loses its meaning already. Two, the guys will not know what the girls want them to do unless they are told too(and sometimes even when they are told, the might not want to do it). At times, the guys dont even know that they have already disappointed their girlfriends. That is some guys think that girls get angry/sad for no reason.

What do you do when such situations happen? I, will get very sad first. Then I will get frustrated and feel like strangling him. Then I’ll get tired of the situation. Then give in. The next thing I know is the cycle repeats itself.

I am aware that if these situations happen frequently, chances for a relationship to blow is higher. So sometimes I’ll just have to be a lil thick face and tell him what I want to just prevent something bad from happening. When I feel like I need to keep some pride in me, I’ll just keep quiet and try to forget and forgive his insensitiveness.

The worst these situations can get is when the girl can finally tolerate no more and one tiny winy mistakes can tick her off. That will be very difficult for the guy to calm her down, not to mention cheering her up.

Now heres a tip for the guys. If you already disappoint her, do not do/give/make what she initially hoped that you would do for her without her telling, after you find out what she wanted. That will make her super angry. The key is to calm her down first, then cheer her up, then do what she wants.

DO NOT ASK HER WHAT SHE WANTS YOU TO DO. Thats a big no-no. Thats like adding salt to her wound.

*Attention : What I just mentioned above does not apply to everyone*