Those What-if questions

Was having dinner with a friend and the girlfriend sms-ed him asking him some what-if questions. He then asked me how should he answer to her question. I gave him some suggestions and told him that some girls do that. I am one of them.

He then said it seems like she felt insecure. I agreed with him. Because I sometimes feel that way too.

Its not that I do not trust my guy but its part of our nature, you see. You should start worrying if we do not even bother thinking about the what-if questions which involve you. We care, therefore we think, then ask.

My friend did not reply his girlfriend immediately. I then told him that the girlfriend might be waiting for his reply because its a what-if question and she is probably feeling not quite secure at that very moment. He said nevermind, he could reply later.

If I was the girlfriend, I’ll be waiting anxiously.

Guys might say, why not tell us directly how you’re feeling, we’re tired of guessing. Well, somethings can be told directly and some cannot.

Example 1

Guy : I want to shit.
Girl : I want to go to the washroom.

How many girls actually tell the guys that they wanna shit? I dont know. I wont.

Anyway, when the girlfriends ask what-if questions, the guys will only think :
.::. “why so as such questions? Eat too full nothing to do?”

Example 2

Why cant you guys think this way? :
.::. “What did I do to make her ask that eh?”

If anyone out there have an opinion which differs from mine, do enlighten me.